I made this little video for my gf @abbyplested for her birthday! It's footage I took from an adventure we went on to Shakespare Regional Park, this beach is located at the tip of the Whangaparaoa Peninsula and is soooo beautiful. I highly recommend a visit if you haven't been before. To edit the video I used the app RAD VHS, it's super cute but a little nigly to get used to using. Song is Yuma by Matchstick, Abby showed me it, I love it and listen to it on repeat. There's so many cool photo editing and video editing apps out there! Do you babes have any favourites? Kisses, AL XO
Oh hey! Welcome to my bedroom Babes!
My amazing fiancé built this bed for me. I've always wanted a four post bed and while Cas and I were living in Bali this year he made it for me as a gift when I returned home. BEST MAN EVER!
My bedroom is easily one of my favourite rooms in my house, it has been for years. I think because since I was 15 when I moved out of my Mum's I’ve lived with other people, so my bedroom's been my absolute personal sanctuary for half my life.
Over the years I’ve created my own set of routines and rituals which others might find particular (maybe even a little over the top) but in them I find comfort and clarity. I feel like it’s super important to create little rituals for yourself and your home so My Babe, here’s a few of mine.
I hope you enjoy My Babes.
The cover of a meditation book my Mum gave me, the rest of the book lives inside my bedside table.
We made the pallet base a couple of years ago, bought some pallets off TradeMe. Vinny spent ages taking off the extra wood then I spent hours upon hours sanding and painting it. To be honest it was such a mission, a fab DIY project but way more work than I'd anticipated. I've huge amounts of appreciation for furniture makers now.
1. Clean sheets on Sunday
I can’t tell you when this started but for the last five years (at least) I’ve changed and washed my sheets every Sunday. For me it’s the perfect way to seal off the week, wash away all that happened and start afresh. We actually only have two sets of sheets so I rotate them each week. I also change our duvet and vacuum the house each Sunday too. Cleaning and cleansing.
2. Sealing your sleep space
The first thing I do when I wake in the morning is draw my curtains to let in the natural light. Second to this I make my bed. Similar to changing my sheets/bedding on Sunday this ritual feels like I’m literally closing the sleeping part of my day and preparing for my wake state. I find simple pleasure in making my bed, it’s never a chore. I love arranging my pillows and throws and flattening the duvet creases. Each morning before I head to my next ritual (washing my face and scraping my tongue) I’ll take a moment to appreciate my bed for helping me rest and restore for a new day.
3. Tidy room, tidy mind
I’m 110% the opposite of myself as a teenager, back in the day you could hardly see the floor, oh my it was actually so bad. I don’t know how I could even think surrounded by all that mess. These days you’ll rarely find clothes on the floor, much to Vinny’s annoyance. Haha everytime he’s finished wearing something he’ll put it on the floor and before he knows it I would have picked it up and put it in the wash. Or now I’ve actually created his own “not clean but not washing” basket, I highly recommend you give your partner one if you’re easily annoyed at their mess, although his things still end up on the floor sometimes…
4. Coordinated Clothes
We’ve been waiting over a year for our landlord to put doors on our wardrobe, you know one of those things they promise they’ll do before you move in then they never get around to doing it. So as our clothes are always in sight I find it nice to have a home for everything. And yes our clothes are colour coordinated, I’m a geek. Our draws are sorted into underwear, exercise clothes and comfy home clothes. I also have a thing where I like to put empty hangers at the front of the clothes, each time I take something off the hanger I pop the empty hanger at the front. Then next time you go to hang something up a fresh hanger is right there, perfect.
5. Storage AKA I love baskets
Okay so I might have a basket addiction but how good are they for keeping things/plants in? In our baskets on the top shelf of our wardrobe are our shoes and hats. Then on Vinny’s side of the wardrobe there’s his “not washing” basket, one for chargers and cords and another is my miscellaneous basket. I think the biggest thing when having baskets/draws that help get things out of sight is to go through them regularly and make sure they don’t become dumping grounds. I go through my miscellaneous basket each week and get rid of things I don’t need, or put them back in their actual home - ie. hair ties back in the bathroom or scissors back in the kitchen.
My fave piece of art by the gorgeous Hannah Jensen, they're my three mantras she painted especially for me.
6. Natural over synthetic
I think I picked this up from my fiancé’s family. They’re big fans of natural fibres. Also, ever since meeting my girlfriend Anna I’d always wanted beautiful linen. Her Mum had invested in gorgeous bedding for her and I’d dreamed of having the same. Vinny, Cas and I used to live in a mini house on Vinny’s parents property in Grey Lynn. The three of us lived in a one bedroom, one lounge, mini bathroom, laundry and camp style kitchen place when we first met. When we moved into our first proper home together we said we’d get a King bed so for Christmas I got us gorgeous linen sheets. We actually ended up getting a Super King bed so I’ve been squeezing them on for over two years now. But I digress, quality bedding that is made of natural fibres is a must as it’s breathable - This is one ritual I’ll never let go of.
I love wearing natural materials as much as I love sleeping in them. My dream 100% silk gown I got at the Seminyak markets in Bali, it cost me $70 for two!
7. Plant Polishing
Oh my I actually love my plants. I’ll always have at least one plant in my bedroom and I tend to actually rotate my plants around my house. I find this keeps things fresh and changes the space. I water my plants every Sunday and will polish each one of their leaves once a month. This is a lovely slow ritual I appreciate and Cas often gets involved, he’ll talk to and cuddle the plants.
8. Setting the mood
I’m such a fan of scented candles. Normally I’ll have a couple of candles in our bedroom but I actually recently burnt out all of my candles in the house, all of them are empty. How?! I guess this means I had been burning them all at the same time. I love lighting candles in the evening, they help to set the mood and are a gentle signal to start settling down.
Let's just say I love sarongs. The black and white robe on the right is the second silk robe I got I got in Bali and the linen bag on the right I use as my camera bag.
Cas this afternoon, just passed out on our bed amongst my 10 pillows - Vinny's always giving me a hard time when he makes the bed and "has to arrange the millions of pillows", especially when we only sleep on two. LOL. Black and white pillows from Logan and Mason and my cream one that matches my throw is Kim Soo.
On top of our pallets is actually two Super King mattresses, we've been having quite the mattress saga in our house the last couple of years, essentially we got both of them second hand and we don't like either of them. Vinny's one is super hard, like you can feel wood and springs so we use it as the base with a valance and mine is on top but it's too freakin' plush. If you Babes have any reasonable mattress recommendations I'd so appreciate them!
Woohoo you made it to the end honey! That was a bit longer than I anticipated, turns out I had lots to say.
Do you enjoy this kind of stuff My Babes, I'd love your feedback and I just love hearing from you in general, it makes my day!!
Have a fab week darlings. AL XO
My fave green juice that’s actually a “blendy”, I think I just made that word up? Hehe I just mean it’s blended not squeezes though a juicer, hello fibre goodness!! I'm have this baby daily at the moment and absolutely love it!!
1-2 whole lemons (skin removed),
1 clove of fresh garlic (you could leave out if you’ve got a hot date)
1 tsp tumeric
2cm knob of fresh ginger
1-3 handfuls of spinach
ice and 1L of water
Parsley, is also a fab addition if you’re a hard greenie!!
1. You’ll wanna blend it till everything is all whizzed, it should be thin like a juice, not thick at all.
2. Pour in a glass/jar or two and pop in a couple of extra ice cubes and enjoy.
Sending you all the love, AL XO
When my cookbooks and cosmetics list the same ingredients it’s a GREAT day in my books Babe!!
Quinoa, acai, pomegranate, blueberry, and cacao - Sounds delicious, right?! Like something I could turn into an amazing gluten free porridge or smoothie bowl! They're also the ingredients found in HAN skincare products. AMAZING! So good you could seriously eat them.
Gorgeous babes, HAN is a 100% naturally derived, cruelty free and affordable makeup brand that's new to NZ and I’ve been trying it out and loving it.
Like most things in my home I’m a minimal makeup babe. So, I like to choose products consciously, things I love and will use often.
HAN (which stands for Healthy and Natural) isn’t just ‘makeup’ they’ve created skincare cosmetics that actually look after your skin. With ingredients like shea butter and vitamin E to nourish your skin. All their products use quality natural ingredients that give beautiful vibrant colours - win win!
When founder, Susan Wong, became pregnant and couldn't find any 100% natural cosmetics at an affordable price she developed HAN. It was actually when I fell pregnant with Cas that I started to actually consider what I was putting not only in my body but on my body too. So, I’m all about the idea of using nature's colours and tones and avoiding toxic chemicals where I can.
They don't test on animals and nor do they use Carminic Acid (that’s the one that’s made from crushed bottles to create a red colour), instead they use cherry, pink carrot, beetroots, red quinoa and rose flower.
I’m in love with this Golden Glow eyeshadow. Anything golden and you’ve got me. It’s buttery and super pigmented, so lovely! I actually use it as a bronzer too! All about those multi-purpose products babes! With acai, pomegranate, blueberry, cranberry, green tea, black tea, sea kelp and shea butter I just cannot get enough. Their other eye shadows are beautiful and earthy too!
HAN bronzer in Maui, with cacao and coconut is stunning. This is actually darker than I would usually use but a little went such a long way on my face that I didn’t need to use that much of it and it’s easy to layer to make it darker too. Next time I think I’ll go for Ibiza, it’s lighter with a little shimmer, all about that glow baby!
Pressed Blush in Coral Candy, I have to say for a babe who’s all about the golden bronze this looks super bright! But, upon application it’s far more natural and is actually a beaut blush that is coloured with carrot and quinoa.
I've been using the Cheek & Lip Tint in Coral Hibiscus on my lips and babes, I’ve literally had to stop myself from eating it, it smells BEYOND GOOD! It’s probably a little pinker than I’d normally go for but it’s SO nourishing and soothing on the lips I’ve been happily wearing it all the same.
FAVE! My must have is the Lip Gloss in Nude Rose. It applies lovely, it’s non-sticky, and the colour is my perfect nude!
I’m very impressed with these beautiful products. So fab that they’re made of 100% naturally derived antioxidant rich ingredients. They’re totally affordable, cruelty free and available here in NZ - You can find HAN at selected Life Pharmacy and Unichem stores now.
Thanks to the babes at HAN, I’m giving away a complete set... eyeshadow, lip & cheek tint, blush, bronzer and lip gloss.
To enter simply comment on this blog post why you’d like to try HAN. Competition closes 8pm, 29th November 2017. Good luck, AL XO
8 November, 1027
I’ve been looking at my Bali photos, I love living simple and slow. I feel somewhat caught in the middle of two different lives right now. I don’t really know what I need. But I know I need less. Less things. Less ‘to do’ lists. Less rushing. And at the same time I need more. More generosity. More presence. More patience.
I always thought I wanted a big life. Big things. Big impact. Big job. But I think maybe I misunderstood and what I really desire is an intentional life that has an impact. A powerful and positive impact on those closest to me.
But like I said I don’t really know and I feel like that’s ok for me right now. So I’ll take those things I do know and start practicing them. Then I’ll see how I feel.
I’m not sure that anyone ever really knows what they need all the time anyway. Would it be boring to always know? Or maybe peaceful? I don’t know. If I find that place I’ll tell you.
💋 Goodnight. AL XO
The Facialist, City Works Depot.
I don’t have a lot of clothes but those I do have I absolutely adore and wear often. A few of my favourite things discarded (lovingly) there on the chair.
This brush. Oh my. This brush. After a luxurious face, shoulder and back massage this brush was gently guided around my face, it was utter bliss. The contrast of the massage to soft bristles was perfect.
I received the Tribeca Glow Ritual. Tribeca is Ashleigh’s own brand of skincare and is 100% natural, mostly organic and made to support and rebuild our skin with everything we need and nothing we don’t need.
It felt so indulgent to slip back into bed at 10am in the morning.
Oh and see that thing to the right of the bed, that’s a herbal steamer, it misted lavender and chamomile over my face during part of the experience. I need one of these at home, it smells amazing.
Babes. You may have noticed I’ve been a little MIA the last couple of days. I’ve had some big news which has really pulled me back and made me feel pretty internal. I know it’ll all be okay and it’s totally okay not be okay all the time. This is only for a moment so I’m enjoying taking things slow and being more still.
In perfect timing I was treated to a facial at The Facialist with Ashleigh Scott, Holistic Skin Therapist and the Boss Babe behind the business. I gotta tell ya honey the whole thing blew my mind. I had thee most dreamy experience. I came away feeling relaxed, with fresh dewy skin and as though my soul had been given an incredible amount of care. This last part was totally unexpected, I had no idea a facial could be so healing - It was everything I needed and more.
I experienced lovely oils and incredible smells, firm massages (you can choose your preference) and gentle brushes, warm towels and cold stones.
So we’re clear honey I was no paid to do this post, I hand on heart had the most healing experience and wanted to share it with you because as I always say, I feel like the best things come via recommendations and this, I highly recommend.
The facial was insanely delicious but it was the whole package that made it exceptional - The stunning decor, the warm greeting, the tea, the scents, the caring touch and energy that made me feel special, secure and totally at home.
I hope you take some time for yourself today my love, take a walk, read a chapter of a book, do a home mask or relax with a cup of tea. You deserve some time just for you. Come join me in the Self Love/Care Club. ILY Babes. AL XO
Last time we covered budgeting and getting out of debt! I've done my budget and Babes I'm on the hunt for a job so I feel like I'm making some progress to becoming debt free and having a healthier relationship with money.
This week I chat Money Mindset with My Babe and Mindset Coach and Self Made Millionaire, @sunnivaholt.
9 Simple Steps To Change Your Money Mindset
- Identify what your money stories are and where they've come from (let's be honest, probs our parents...). "Money doesn't grow on trees", "money is the root of all evil", "rich people are arrogant" etc. Become clear these stories, where they came from and write them down.
- Dismantle these beliefs. Write down as many reasons as you can for each of these stories as to why they're silly, ridiculous and unhelpful.
- Create your now story, let it be a beautiful relationship with money! "I'm really good with money", "money loves me", "money in the right hands can create positive power" are examples.
- Get leverage on yourself. Write down all of the reasons why you need and want these new money stories in your life.
- Catch you language. Never say "I can't afford that" or "I'm broke" because you can afford things it's just a choice where you're putting your money. Use language like "I choose not to purchase..." instead.
- Get really clear on what you want in your life. If you don't have a target you can't hit it. This means giving your money a home. ie. Last year I really wanted to go to Tony Robbins in Sydney I didn't have the money but as soon as I knew exactly how much I needed and what for I made it happen - YES!
- Money needs to trust you, it needs to know that you're good with it! Make sure you're tracking your money, take note of where you're spending - this is in our notes from our Getting outta debt video and post. Reminder don't hide from your money/debt.
- Stop giving money so much power. Money is just ink on paper, it's a tool, use it!
- We need more money in the hands of the good people so we can have a positive impact. Find examples of people in the world who have lots of money and do lots of fabulous things! Like OPRAH!
My Babes, I feel like we're making progress! The more I talk about money with people the more I'm realising we are not alone. Are you enjoying these vids?
If you have any questions around our money chats please comment below and we'll add them to our list!
EVENT | Soul of Money 2.0
Join me at Sunniva's event next Wednesday 8th November, 6.45-9pm. I'll be giving away a ticket on my instagram over the next couple of days so keep an eye out!
If you don't want to miss out and for more details check the event HERE.
(financial) Health + Happiness - always!
Babes, this is my specialty. I don't often go out and buy ingredients to make something in particular, rather I make things depending on what I have in my cupboards/jars/freezer.
Smoothies are my 'go-to' easy peasy don't have to think about it meal. But one thing is for sure I feel like your topping is going to make the smoothie, nothing like the perfect crunch to top it off. My absolute fave is @mynewroots Chunky Chocolate Buckwheat Granola or my Clustered salted caramel granola - these are two things I will make an effort to get the ingredients then I'll add them to my smoothies over the following couple of weeks (if they last that long).
1-1 and a 1/2 frozen bananas
3 frozen strawberries
1 tablespoon cacao
1 teaspoon turmeric
1 teaspoon maca
1 serve collagen, or your fav protein powder
1 tablespoon coconut cream
Blend and top with your fave toppings, my fave are granola and cacao nibs. Best served straight away, with a spoon! Lots of love, AL XO
Babes! I'm in a little bit of trouble and I'm airing all my dirty (debt) laundry so I can help myself get clean and climb up the money tree to financial health and happiness! Since I shared my lack of money situation I've had such a huge response from you honey's and I feel driven to help you, while I help myself!
First stop a chat with my Babe and self made millionaire, @sunnivaholt.
So it's time to own up to your money situation. I've saved and edited the little live Instagram chat we had and below I've jotted down the video notes for you, me - US! We're in this together Babe!
9 Simple Tips To Becoming Debt Free
- Get really clear where you are, stop hiding from your money/debt. DO NOT IGNORE WHAT'S GOING ON. How much debt are you in? What exactly is your money situation?
- Consolidate your debt onto one no interest or low interest credit card. Then cut up your credit cards.
- Create a budget and start tracking your money. Everyday in a spreadsheet write out what money is coming in and out. OR you could go over your bank/credit statements from the last month and review where your money is going. Become clear what you're spending your money on, what's necessary and unnecessary?
- Live within your means. Become clear where the fritter is, those unnecessary things you're spending on. These don't have a place in your budget when you're trying to get out of debt honey.
- Save at least 10% of your income! As soon as your pay comes in, have an automatic payment into your account to pay off your debt. To ensure your saving stays on track create your weekly budget from this new balance.
- In your budget outline your non-negotiables. Rent, food, bills. Allow for play money, to find this figure out what brings you the most amount of joy. Let these be special events rather than those things that have just become habits/routines. DO NOT SET A BUDGET SO LOW IT IS PAINFUL. Set it where you can comfortably live and live within that, do not go over.
- Review your budget/money every week.
- Think also about how you can expand. How can you expand your income and Iive within your means so you are in an abundance state.
- Food, it's really easy to overspend on food! Give yourself a decent amount but be clear on your food budget and stick to it. Look at your options, go to the local food markets! I love the Grey Lynn Farmers Market, I get a huge amount of spray free veges for the week for around $34. Frozen veges, rice and oats are also awesome and cheap.
So there you go Babes, just like that we'll be debt free in no time! Who's with me? On another note I'm a little embarrassed to say it but I've had that "Money, money, money, money. Money." tune in my head all day and I've just realised it's the theme song from the TV Reality show, The Apprentice, you know the one Trump did, if you're too young or need reminding you can hear it here.
Coming up Sunniva and I will talk about saving (including saving on a low income), money mindset, how to get into property, rentals, starting your own business and more. If you have any questions around our money chats please comment below and we'll add them to our list! Who knew talking about money could be so fun! When I get the details of Sunniva's Money Mindset event I'll share that too!
(financial) Health + Happiness - always!
This breekie has been doing me wonders the couple of weeks, nothing fancy I know but after the fiancé left I was feeling more than a little bloated (we ate ALL the food) and lacking energy! And to be honest wrangling the babes in cafés solo for three meals a day just isn't fun so we've been making breakfast at home and I'm loving it! I find I'm often asking Cas to behave better (whatever that means, he's a nearly three year old with lots of energy) while I'm trying to eat and it can be bloody stressful!
Anyway, yay for eating at home in a stress free environment!! This recipe is super simple, like I don't think it could get any simpler.
1/2 to 3/4 cup mix of seeds, approx. I don't actually have any measurers here in Bali so this is a total guess, you may like more or less. My fav mix is mainly chia, then linseeds and maybe a couple of teaspoons of sesame seeds. You could also add sunflower and pumpkin seeds, I just don't particularly like the texture in this kind of soaked breakfast.
1 teaspoon cinnamon
2 dessert spoons coconut yoghurt or cream
1 serve your fav plant protein
Frozen raspberries or blueberries
Cacao nibs, to top
1. Add seeds to water into a jar/bowl and stir mindfully.
2. Soak seeds in overnight, I go for a 1-2 ratio so 1/2 a cup of seeds and one cup of water. You'll probably want to add more water in the morning depending on your desired texture. I tend to soak these in the fridge here in Bai but back home I'd just leave it in the cupboard overnight.
3. The following morning stir though protein powder, cinnamon and coconut yoghurt. Top with berries and cacao nibs for a little crunch! Simple, delicious + light - Enjoy!
I particularly love this as I normally like training fasted but here in Bali it's just too late by the time I drop Cas to school and get to the gym and I find a mini size pre training is perfect!! Have a wonderful day Babes! AL XO